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Confetti Effect

Inspirational quote saying, 'kindness is free, sprinkle that stuff everywhere,' with 'sprinkle' and 'everywhere' written in gold, cursive font.
The Traveling Good
Kindness & Encouragement Kirsten Telan Kindness & Encouragement Kirsten Telan

The Traveling Good

Let’s go and do good while on vacation.

Traveling together with my family is one of my life’s most enriching experiences — new sights, new cultures, new memories and loads of laughs. But as I’ve gotten older and stronger in my faith, I have realized that too much of worldly things is not what gives me fulfillment. Getting my passport stamped, taking scenic photos and dining at fabulous restaurants is wonderful but there is something gratifying about traveling with purpose: doing good as you go.

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Let Your Light Shine
Kindness & Encouragement Kirsten Telan Kindness & Encouragement Kirsten Telan

Let Your Light Shine

We have a choice each day. We can choose to make an impact. In this broken and dark world we can become a symbol of hope and goodness. Being there to intentionally help others is the best thing we can do as it reflects our heart and soul. I have listed a few of my Confetti Effects 🎉 and how they may help to elevate, inspire and ignite a spark to those around you.

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Only You Can Be The Judge Of That
Personal Growth & Mindset Kirsten Telan Personal Growth & Mindset Kirsten Telan

Only You Can Be The Judge Of That

You judge. I judge. We judge others. They judge us. We all do it.

Why do we judge? It’s a habit in most cases. It can start as simply a way to bond or connect with people. Have you noticed when you talk about someone else, most people will gladly chime in. I’m guilty as charged.

Judging hurts other people, makes you feel worse about yourself, perpetuates stereotypes, can lead to losing friends, damages your health/happiness, makes you less open to new experiences, and sends negative vibes into the world. Judgment of others is a reflection of our own insecurities. When I have judged others, I feel badly about it after. I don’t feel good about myself…not even for a second. And I certainly wouldn’t want to be judged because I’ve always believed in the idea of treating others how I would want to be treated.

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How To Use the Confetti Effect to Influence, Lead Change, and Win People Over
Personal Growth & Mindset Kirsten Telan Personal Growth & Mindset Kirsten Telan

How To Use the Confetti Effect to Influence, Lead Change, and Win People Over

Leadership: You Get What You Give

I have always been fascinated by the differences in how leaders lead. Whether we are looking at the leaders of countries, cities, teams, or even families, there are many different styles of leadership that all emanate from the personal energy of the leader. Having researched and read a bit on leaders and leadership, I believe that if there is any one secret to POSITIVE leadership, it lies in the leader’s ability to understand and appreciate the PERSPECTIVE OF OTHERS.

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Presence over Presents
Relationships, Family & Friendship Kirsten Telan Relationships, Family & Friendship Kirsten Telan

Presence over Presents

Be there for your friends; even when it’s hard.

My younger self used to run from the hard stuff. I wasn’t trained or prepared on how to face pain and loss. It made me sad and uncomfortable. I think back to my late 20’s even early 30’s when I would see a friend at Publix who I heard was going through a tough season whether it be a loss of a loved one, divorce, surgery or sickness. I would panic and turn down another aisle to avoid coming in contact because I was truly at a loss for words.

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